Conversations with people really are a good way to fully think about some things. This was a comment I wrote about judging people and how we judge people as either good or bad or in between.
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In my opinion, most people are too caught up in the superficiality of life and don't think about the more important things. If more people thought about things other than what was right in front of them, then things could be much better.
I think it is wrong to jusdge, but I do judge myself. I try not to and do it a lot less than most people, but I still do it. I think that, for conversations like this, it is always important to think of an example and try to think of how I would react to it. So here's one...Michael Jackson. I remember a while back when his trial for child molestation was going on and everybody was saying "Michael Jackson" this and "Michael Jackson" that. I think that everyone saw him as a bad person except for some who were die hard fans.
What did (do) you think of him? I was having a conversation with my friend and he isn't as calm as I am and he kept going on about how horrible Michael Jackson is and saying that he is a 'dirty pervert'. I stopped and thought about it for a second and replied with this... 'Do you personally know Michael Jackson? I know for a fact that you don't. Not only this, but do you know him much at all? You don't really know him at all and as if that wasn't enough, you don't even know if he really did what those people are claiming he did. How can you judge him based on such a small thread of information?'
Of course I do understand why he feels that way about Michael Jackson and what he apparently didn't do, but my point is that we usually base our own opinions off other people's opinions. We listen to the news and hear what's going on and we form an opinion and talk about it to others. It all gets muddled up in a large game of Chinese whispers and most people end up following the majority. And what's worse is that the news can even be wrong at times. They have to make a good story in order to get people to read, watch or listen and sometimes that means bending or even not including the truth. We can never be 100% sure whether or not something did or didn't happen. We have to be open to all possibilities even when they seem impossible. My favourite motto at the moment is..."It's not impossible...just improbable!"
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P.S. I'm not a fan of Michael Jackson in case you were wondering hehe
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